I care. I care about each family I help. I care because I remember only all to well what it feels like to start this process and wondering whether I can do this without one-on-one guidance. And I will be forever grateful for the listserv group, where I did find help from other parents and adults on the same path. I found that the more I learned the how and the why, the easier it got for me. I wish to share what I have learned over the years to shorten your learning curve.